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Sleep deprivation doesn’t just affect us when our babies are here – it strikes in pregnancy as well…

 

I remember all too well…

  • the dreams – chances are we remember more of our dreams in pregnancy because, for many of us, our sleep is disturbed more often and we wake up after our dreams.The Babycentre website has some great pages about dreaming in pregnancy:

First Trimester
Second Trimester
Third Trimester
End of Pregnancy

  • the constant need for a wee – there’s not a lot of room for wee when there’s a growing baby putting pressure on your bladder. And I remember the frustration of waddling to the loo several times a night, only to need to dribble
  • the crampy legs – your tired legs take the strain in the second and third trimester, so they can seize up at night. Drink plenty of water throughout the day, gentle calf stretches may help, along with taking a bath before bed. Treat yourself to some massage treatments too – it could make all the difference.You may need to get out of bed and walk around to ease the leg cramps and if you are concerned about them – mention them to your midwife.
  • the need to constantly change position to get comfy – try to lie on your left-side because this will help your baby stay in a good position and it helps the blood flow to the placenta, and your kidneys to rid your body of fluids and waste products.Use pillows to between your knees and under your bump to ease the pressure on your hip and pelvic muscles and joints.

    If you wake up on your back, turn onto your left side again. You can also try using pillows to stop yourself from lying on your back.

  • and just being wide awake at 3am! – your mind can ping into action, especially in the third trimester. If you are just lying there but sleep isn’t coming, you could use this time to make those lists of things to do, you could potter about, read, or use your breathing to help calm your mind and encourage sleep to come.

 

Continuous lack of sleep can make us feel exhausted and run-down so you may need to look at where you can get a nap, having an early night when you can, think about whether work is causing any stress and tiredness – I have had clients who have left work slightly earlier that they expected to because of the need to rest and ease stress.

 

What can help?

  • Come to Relax & Breathe to learn simple relaxation techniques.
  • Pregnancy Pilates  and Pregnancy Yoga can also help
  • Book yourself in for a Pregnancy Massage
  • Don’t forget the simple stuff, which is often overlooked – try to eat well and drink plenty of water.
  • If you have any concerns about you or your baby – talk to your midwife
  • If you are feeling anxious about the birth of your baby – talk to me

 

Further Reading


 

2nd trimester: weeks 13-28

 

You might be telling people now, especially if you have had your first scan which can provide reassurance for a lot of parents

 

How you might be feeling?

  • You could be blooming or still feeling blooming awful
  • Sleeping, eating and getting through the day without feeling like you’ve been drugged could become easier, you might even feel up to some exercise – yoga, pilates, aquanatal, aerobics are all great for you.
  • You could start to feel your baby move – from fluttering to full on kicks as he gets bigger
  • The sickness could go but the heartburn could start at some point in the second trimester – talk to your midwife if you are concerned about it
  • You might start to experience back and pelvis aches, or even pain, as your joints loosen and your body shape changes to accommodate your growing baby
  • As your baby grows, you might start to feel breathless too – always check this out with your midwife if it concerns you
  • Some women get more headaches in pregnancy. Although you can take paracetamol, it can be worth looking at other ways of easing them – plenty of fluids, eat, rest, get some fresh air and some gentle exercise. You could also book yourself in for a massage to see it that helps!

 

What’s happening in your body?

During your second trimester your baby will grow from about 8cm – 36cm long, he will learn to suck his thumb, have a wee and he might start playing with the umbilical cord too. As your baby grows, his hearing will develop, as well as his taste buds and he will become aware of light and touch to the bump – so it can be a great way to interact with your baby.

 

Tests and scans

Dating scan
You may have had this already or it may take place at about 12-13 weeks. The sonographer will check that your baby is developing normally. This scan will also check how many babies are in there! This scan can also help to confirm when your baby is due. It takes about 10 minutes

Nuchal scan
This can be included with the Dating Scan, although you don’t have to have this screening test. It estimates the risk of your baby having Down’s syndrome by measuring the fluid at the back of your baby’s neck. This may also be combined with a blood test

Amniocentesis
This is offered to pregnant women if there is a chance that your baby has a genetic disorder or chromosome problem and you should be able to talk it through with a midwife or doctor to find out more about it. A sample of amniotic fluid is taken via a needle – the amniotic fluid contains your baby’s cells so it can be used to diagnose genetic disorders and chromosome conditions, such as Down’s syndrome. It usually takes place at about 16 weeks but it is your choice – you don’t have to have one but you can discuss this with the fetal health doctor or midwife.

Anomaly scan
This scan happens at around 20 weeks. It takes about 20 minutes and it checks the shape and structure of all your baby’s organs and bones and how your baby is growing The placenta, umbilical cord and amniotic fluid is also checked. You can find out the sex of your baby

 

 Your midwife appointments

You will see you midwife at about 16 weeks and, if this is your first baby, again at 25 weeks. This is your opportunity to ask any questions about how you are feeling and any concerns you have. Although if you are worried about anything in-between your midwife visits you can call to make an extra appointment, you can see your GP or you can call into your local Pregnancy Assessment Unit to get you and baby checked out.

 

At your midwife appointments she will:

  • check your urine sample for bacteria, sugar and protein – your midwife wants to check for any infection, diabetes and signs of pre-eclampsia.
  • Measure your blood pressure – to check you are in good health. If you have high blood pressure, your midwife may want to see you more frequently to monitor it.
  • Listen to your baby’s heartbeat – which can be fantastic to listen to
  • Measure your bump – just to make sure your baby is growing as it should be. If your midwife has any concerns, you may be referred to the hospital for a growth scan.

 

Also…

  • Book onto some antenatal classes
  • Think about where you want to have your baby
  • Drink plenty of water and eat well – this will help with any tiredness, headaches and constipation
  • If you are concerned about anything, see your midwife , GP or call into your Pregnancy Assessment Unit
  • Treat yourself to some massage sessions

 


7 tips for a happy and healthy pregnancy

 

1.     Eat well 
I know too well how this is not always easy because when we feel sick, tired and, generally, a bit rough it’s easy to eat junk and fall into the biscuit barrel. And some days we can feel like we are never full!  Try to eat a decent meal a day, with a splattering of fruit throughout the day to balance out the chocolate! Remember to drink water too –  being dehydrated can make you feel tired and give you headaches.

2.     Rest and sleep 
Getting through a day at work or with your toddler means you have to keep going but, when it comes to the evening, if you are shattered try not to fight it – go to bed! You are making another human being and the tiredness can feel like you have been drugged so you need to rest.

3.     Exercise
You might feel that you want to wait until you are out of the haze of the first trimester, when you have a little more energy but even just going for a walk is going to help you feel re-energised and healthy.

If you fancy a class to meet other expectant mums and improve your fitness, The Birth & Baby Network has Aerobics, Pilates, Aqua Aerobics and Yoga instructors, who provide courses specifically for pregnant women.

4.     Relax  
Relaxation is not indulgent it’s essential, especially in pregnancy. Being able to totally relax means you de-stress and ease tension, which is good for you and your baby.

Book yourself in for Relax & Breathe, pregnancy massage or reflexology sessions to help you relax and de-stress.

5.     Aches & pains
As your baby grows and your body changes, you can develop aches in your back, neck and/or pelvis. It’s worth contacting a Chiropractor for an assessment, to see if you could benefit from a treatment.

6.     Prepare for birth
At some point during pregnancy, most parents decide they need more support to help them prepare for the birth of their baby. Antenatal classes are a great way to gain information and ask all the questions you need to feel more informed and reassured.

7.     Talk
If this isn’t your first baby or you are feeling very anxious about the birth of your baby, it can be worth talking it through with someone. This can help you get to the root of your anxiety and provide you with opportunity of easing any stress you may feel in pregnancy. Ask to speak to you midwife or you can contact Birth & Baby Basics for support.


Exercise and being healthy in pregnancy can be so important to us, both physically and emotionally. Expectant mum Laura changed her lifestyle as soon  as she became pregnant:

Being pregnant has changed every aspect on my life and who I feel I now am as a person, and given me a respect for my body and a new found love for what it can really do.

Before I became pregnant I will admit that I didn’t do any exercise at all, probably drank too much wine, gin and fizz and I was a smoker, however I ate healthily and watched my weight.

When we found out we were going to have a baby I knew that my main priority was to get healthy and prepare my body for the biggest journey it will ever take; childbirth. I quit smoking immediately and started to exercise which I have found has really helped me come to terms not only with a changing shape but the emotions attached with nine months of preparation before our child arrives.

I now really look forward to going swimming and practising yoga and I feel so much fitter. I never really had the energy or motivation to exercise before but I feel so much stronger and I’m not as daunted by labour as I feel a sense of being physically and mentally prepared for the journey ahead.

My growing baby has made me appreciate my body and I have found a new appreciation and amazement for the female form. I’m proud to show off my bump and for the first time ever love the fact my belly is getting bigger!

I hope to continue with exercise after my baby arrives - I’d like to set an example and for us to be a healthy family and teach our daughter a positive body image through keeping fit rather than dieting.

 

To help you feel fit and strong in pregnancy you can try:

Pilates

Aquanatal 

Pregnancy aerobics


Babes With Bumps

Antenatal & Postnatal Pilates
With Claire Barnaby 

Antenatal

Specialist classes for pregnant women, suitable from 16 weeks onwards. A great way to look after your body during your pregnancy and also meet other mums to be!
Pilates helps to
  • Support your lower back- and your bump
  • Strengthen the abdominals and pelvic floor muscles
  • Improve your posture
  • Help with relaxation and breathing
  • Help to regain a flatter tummy after giving birth

 

Postnatal

Suitable from your six week check and baby can come too!
A great way to get back into exercise and start to strengthen those pelvic floor and abdominal muscles, improve your posture and have a bit of time for yourself.
Babies can be used in some of the exercises to add resistance or you can leave them snoozing while you concentrate on your own body for a bit.
For dates and times of classes:
07506 725891

 

About me

I trained and qualified with Body Control Pilates in London, which is Europe’s leading Pilates organisation.  (www.bodycontrol.co.uk), and have been teaching Pilates for over three years.
Being a mum of three small children I decided to specialize in pre and postnatal classes, partly because of my interest in it, and also because of the many benefits I found during my own pregnancy and, certainly afterwards, in helping to regain my pre-pregnancy body.


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