Birth & Baby Network

For parents on Tyneside

Your birth bag…

Whether you are planning on having your baby at home or in hospital, it can be useful to have a few things handy to help you feel more comfortable and calmer in labour.

Here’s the basics:

  • Birth ball
  • Pillow
  • Water & food to keep you both going, plus chocolate buttons and/or jelly babies for a quick energy boost
  • Blanket/dressing gown for comfort and warmth
  • Socks – in case your feet get cold
  • Relaxing music, especially if you have used it in pregnancy. An MP3 with headphones can be useful so you can focus and stay calm
  • A small fan and/or water spray to help you cool down
  • A straw to make drinking water easier
  • You birth preferences list, your maternity notes and any handouts to remind you of positions and breathing
  • Lip balm – your lips can become dry in labour, especially if you are using gas & air
  • Inflatable bath pillow – perfect for using in the birthing pool
  • Hair clips/bobbles if you have long hair
  • Some women also like to use Rescue Remedy to help keep them calm
  • Massage oil
  • TENS machine

This is by no means a set list, what did you find useful in labour…

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7 tips for a happy and healthy pregnancy

1.     Eat well 
I know too well how this is not always easy because when we feel sick, tired and, generally, a bit rough it’s easy to eat junk and fall into the biscuit barrel. And some days we can feel like we are never full!  Try to eat a decent meal a day, with a splattering of fruit throughout the day to balance out the chocolate! Remember to drink water too –  being dehydrated can make you feel tired and give you headaches.

2.     Rest and sleep 
Getting through a day at work or with your toddler means you have to keep going but, when it comes to the evening, if you are shattered try not to fight it – go to bed! You are making another human being and the tiredness can feel like you have been drugged so you need to rest.

3.     Exercise
You might feel that you want to wait until you are out of the haze of the first trimester, when you have a little more energy but even just going for a walk is going to help you feel re-energised and healthy.

If you fancy a class to meet other expectant mums and improve your fitness, The Birth & Baby Network has Aerobics, Pilates, Aqua Aerobics and Yoga instructors, who provide courses specifically for pregnant women.

4.     Relax  
Relaxation is not indulgent it’s essential, especially in pregnancy. Being able to totally relax means you de-stress and ease tension, which is good for you and your baby.

Book yourself in for Relax & Breathe, pregnancy massage or reflexology sessions to help you relax and de-stress.

5.     Aches & pains
As your baby grows and your body changes, you can develop aches in your back, neck and/or pelvis. It’s worth contacting a Chiropractor for an assessment, to see if you could benefit from a treatment.

6.     Prepare for birth
At some point during pregnancy, most parents decide they need more support to help them prepare for the birth of their baby. Antenatal classes are a great way to gain information and ask all the questions you need to feel more informed and reassured.

7.     Talk
If this isn’t your first baby or you are feeling very anxious about the birth of your baby, it can be worth talking it through with someone. This can help you get to the root of your anxiety and provide you with opportunity of easing any stress you may feel in pregnancy. Ask to speak to you midwife or you can contact Birth & Baby Basics for support.

 

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Information Sheets

If you are pregnant or have a new baby, here are some
free information sheets that may be of use:

RECOMMENDED READING

SUPPORT AND INFORMATION

BIRTH SUPPORT

COPING STRATEGIES

POSITIONS IN LABOUR

HOW TO HELP YOUR BABY GET INTO A GOOD POSITION FOR BIRTH

INDUCTION

OXYTOCIN DRIP TO SPEED UP LABOUR

MONITORING YOUR BABY

PELVIC FLOOR LEAFLET

POSTNATAL DEPRESSION

SHARING A BED WITH YOUR BABY

REDUCE THE RISK OF COT DEATH

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Beautiful Birth

 Each week I am going to add a link to a birth video to show how women move and sound in labour, how partners can provide support  and how quickly women can smile again after giving birth!

This one is just beautiful…

water birth

 

 

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6 ways to prepare for birth

1. Get your head ready

So you can feel calmer, better prepared and able to believe in your ability to birth your baby

 

2. Antenatal Classes

Book on to some good antenatal classes, where your partner can also gain information and find out more about support in labour.  Antenatal classes should just be about gaining information - good classes promote discussion, enable parents to ask questions, and they provide breathing skills and positions to aid rest and comfort in labour.

 

3. Read some good books

  • The Encyclopaedia of Pregnancy & Birth by Janet Balaskas and Yehudi Gordon
  • Homebirth by Nicky Wesson
  • Expecting by Daphne Metland & Anna McGrail
  • Ina May’s Guide to Childbirth by Ina May Gaskin
  • Spiritual Midwifery by Ina May Gaskin
  • Birth Your Way by Sheila Kitzinger
  • Pregnancy and Childbirth by Sheila Kitzinger

 

4. Decide where you are having your baby:

At home
RVI
Wansbeck
North Tyneside Midwifery-led unit
QE

 

5. Maternity ward tour

If you are booking into hospital, it can be useful to visit your maternity unit. This visit can help you familiarize yourself with the unit, ask questions and to find out practical information such as parking and what happens when you go into the unit in labour.

 

6. Relax

A great way to prepare for labour and birth is to learn how to relax and let go of tension, so your body can do what it needs to do in labour. Focusing on relaxing your body helps you get to know how your body feels when it is tense and how it feels when you slow your breathing down and let go of any tension, stress or anxiety.

 

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